The 3 Steps to Become Who You Want to be (Your Best Self)
How do you become who you want to be? Here are 3 Steps that I am going to share with you today, to take you from where you to where you want to end up because if there is a gap there chances are that there is a gap in character.
Most of us don’t want to face that, most of us don’t want to hear that, most of us want a pill that we can pop so that everything pops into place. But it won’t, you need to change you have to grow you have to expand you have to build who you are in order to become who you want to be and have what you want to have.
It all begins with step NO.1. Choosing:
Deciding who you need to be in order to achieve what it is that you want whatever goal that you have.
What is it that is going to be required of you?
This is the first question that I ask myself when I started my journey; it was the most important question that I asked myself because there is something that you don’t have right now or that you don’t know right now or you don’t master in this current stage, in this moment that you will have to learn. That you will have to understand in order to progress, in order to move closer to whatever objection that it is that you out there. You need to get this down, decide choose what is that? What’s required of you? What is required of you in order to get your goal? Not, what is required of your environment or the people around you but what is required of you. What has to come from you, from within in order to accomplish whatever it is that you want to accomplish.
Then we come to the all mighty, step NO.2. Deciding is NOT enough:
You have to commit, you have to commit.
If you don’t commit if you don’t say that you are all in on this. I am going to make this happen and this is a must for me, not a can, not a will, not a would not a wish, a must. If you don’t make it a must it won’t be met, if you don’t make it a must it is not going to happen it is not going to come through it will lay on the table entirely and you will never be able to reap the results, the benefit. Make it into a must commit , can I do this every single day? Can I make it the main priory? That it is the first thing that put action into when I wake up in the morning, unless I am dead or in a coma I am making this happen.
That is the level of commitment that is required of you, that is the level of commitment that is going to take you over the edge into the side of winning, into the side of actually accomplishing and that is all so very very important.
And that leads into step NO.3. But step No.3. is the results of step NO.2. Because when you commit like that what ends up following up with that is action and that is the third and final step.
If you take the action that is required of you, if you first decide this is what is required of you and then you commit.
I am going to take the action, taking the action that is required of you, you end up with that amazing result.
So apply these three steps, find out what is required of you to become who you want to be to have what you want to have. Can you commit to it? You have to commit to it. If you want it, if you really want it commit today. Say: “That is it, I am DONE! I am not going to waste around any longer. I am not going to screw myself over like this, another day.” And then you end up taking the action, and everything that you have ever wanted starts to appear in front of your very own eyes.